CME project: The family member you admire most.


The family member i admire most is my brother. All this years, my brother assumed a fatherly figure to me. He looked after my welfare since i was a kid. Despite the seemingly huge age gap we have, which is twelve years. My brother and i have a close relationship.

In the trace of my memories, i could vividly remember the days when i was younger, i was often sick and many times my brother carried me on his back all the way to the doctors. There was even once when i vomited on his shoulders. There was another time that sticks in my mind comforting. I was in primary school that time and i was really sad about something. I just remember crying and crying in my brother's arms. I don't even remember what I was so sad about, the important thing is that I have this memory of knowing he was there for me and feeling comforted by him. In looking back, my brother's comforting arms was like a sense of security to me. As the eldest brother, much responsibility was asked from him. My mother often credit my brother's love for me, he even changed my diapers and bathed me when i was a baby. As both my parents work, at times my brother also took charge of my meals, before my parents employed a maid later on. In his teenage years, he has got many roles to take, as a student, a good son, and a good brother. Even so, when he found himself a girlfriend, i didn't feel neglected. He often brought me out with his girlfriend. He had a pair of busy hands, one hand was holding to his girlfriend's, another was holding on to mine. I love that memory.

Those were the days. Now that he is a busy working man, he still shows his care and concern towards me. He would sometimes call just to meet me up for dinner. What a wonderful brother i have. Besides the biological connections we share, there is the common ground and shared history that has kept my brother and me bonded.


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**DILEMMA
Should i or should i not.
S.A.C. this friday.
DONT KNOW.